Someone people are happy being mean & unhappy & not treating other people that well. You can’t change them & you can’t change the situations that you go through, but you can do something about yourself & what is effecting you.
So recently like I said I learned this & learned it the hard way. I told someone something (about myself) but in confidence & asked them & trusted them to keep it to themselves. They betrayed my trust & they never once thought about how it would affect me. I can’t do anything about that now, but I can let go of that person & distance myself from that person. I don’t need that negativity in my life or that betrayal.
In another situation someone was going through a hard time. They lost someone they cared about & I tried to be nice & understanding even though I didn’t care for this person or have a good relationship with them. Needless to say I got burnt & this person acted evil towards me & someone I care about with their words & actions. I need to let it go.
So I’m learning to let go. Why harbor stress & negativity when if I let if go there’s so many blessing & good things I can spend my energy on instead of all this negativity & hurt?! So here’s to a new chapter & a new me starting now.